Diana Lee Ashmore Griffin was taken unexpectedly from us on June 4, 2013.
She was born June 8, 1961, to Loretta and Robert Ashmore in Austin. She graduated from Texas State College, then Southwest Texas, with a degree in education. Diana taught many years in the Austin public schools.
She loved coaching anything, but her favorites were basketball and track. She was in it for the kids. She loved the students-teenagers especially. She was a great motivator and role model for them. If you acted up in her class, you did not get sent to the principal’s office. You had to hold that person’s hand for the entire period. She said it made it very hard to be mad at someone when you had to hold their hand for an hour. She was the reason many at-risk students succeeded, not only on the playing field but also in the classroom.
Just like her mother, she loved to host parties and do all the cooking. She was a fabulous chef and hostess. We don’t remember a family get-together when Diana was not in charge of the meal. She rarely let us bring anything because she loved doing all of it, from the planning, purchasing, cooking to serving. And we had to fight her to do the dishes after all of that.
Diana had the caretaker gene. She helped to take care of her grandmother, Nanny; her Mom, Loretta; and Dad, Robert before they passed away. And it was not just people she took care of. Her dog Bubba was a big dog with a life expectancy of about nine years but he lived to 17 because of Diana’s mothering touch.
Diana never wanted anything for herself. She derived pleasure by giving her time and love to others. Her greatest pleasures were watching others enjoy everything around them.
She married the love of her life and best friend Danny on July 1, 2011 and moved to Alpine. There she made many good friends. She even became a surrogate Mom to some Sul Ross students. It was just the teacher and caregiver in her.
She loved cooking for all her friends and hanging out at the club and golf course. Diana’s kind heart, selfless spirit, and generosity will be missed by all. There is no question she is “gone too soon.”
Diana is survived by her husband and best friend, Danny Griffin; sisters and brothers-in-law Lynn and Jon Herron, and Charlotte and Karl Schafler; nieces and spouses, Stacy and Daniel Wright, Wendy and Chris Elder, Kasey and Kelly Schafler; great-nephews and great-nieces Steve, Lance and Abby Wright and Luke and Parker Elder.
Diana is preceded in death by her grandmother, Lula C. Bell; parents, Loretta and Bob Ashmore; mother-in-law Marjorie Griffin; and sister-in-law Diane Griffin.
Diana will be greatly missed by her family and friends and while we will miss her, we know the party has begun in heaven now that she has arrived. And a side note, the Miller Lite tap in heaven is always open and always free.
A Celebration of Life service was held the evening of Monday, June 10 at the Alpine County Club.
Alpine Memorial Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.